A character in Not Without My Daughter (1991)

Betty quotes from Not Without My Daughter (1991)

Sally Field

Scenes with Betty

6 scenes
Moody

I don't know how to say this to you. We're not going back. We're staying here.

Betty
[pauses]

What do you mean? How long?

Moody

I want to get a job here in a hospital.

Betty

What?

Moody

I want us... to live in Iran.

Betty
[softly]

No... No...

Moody

There's nothing for me in America.

Betty

No... What? Are you crazy? We're Americans. Your daughter's an American! Moody, honey, you're upset about your job. I understand that. We're going to go back today and we're going to fix it.

Moody

I want Mahtob to grow up here.

Betty
[increasingly angry]

No!

Moody

I think she should become a Muslim!

Betty
[screams]

No! No! [pauses] You lied to me. You lied to me! You held the Koran and you swore to me that nothing was going happen. You were planning this all the time. You lied to me!

Betty

Baba Hajji, you're a religious man. How can Moody swear on the Koran and do this to me?

Mammal
[Mammal translates, Babba Hajji gives an assertive answer and the entire family starts yelling at Betty in Farsi]

Allah will forgive him!

Betty
[yelling continues, Betty starts crying]

No, no! Ameh Bozorg! Ameh Bozorg, please help me, please!

Betty
[Ameh Bozorg yells at Betty]

No, you can't do this! God damn you! God damn you! You can't keep me here! You had this planned all along! Damn you!

Betty
[Betty and Mahtob are praying together in the bedroom]

Dear Lord, hear our prayer.

Mahtob

Dear Lord, hear out prayer.

Betty

Please help us leave Iran and get back to America.

Mahtob

Please help us leave Iran and get back to America.

Betty

Please let nothing separate us.

Mahtob

Please let nothing separate us.

Betty

And keep us always safe in Your care.

Mahtob

And keep us always safe in Your care.

Betty

Amen.

Mahtob

Amen.

Nicole
[in the American Interest Section of the Swiss Embassy]

My name is Nicole Adjamian.

Betty

Yes. Betty Mahmoody. This is my daughter, Mahtob.

Nicole

Please do sit.

Betty
[They all sit down]

Thank you. We're so glad to see you. I spoke with my mother in the United States and I know that the State Department is into this. We're just very happy to be here. We'll sleep anywhere for as long as it takes until you can get us out.

Nicole
[confused]

What are you talking about? You cannot stay here.

Betty

I can't go back to my husband. I want to go home to the United States.

Nicole

That may be, but you are in Iran. You are married to an Iranian?

Betty

Yes.

Nicole

Then you are an Iranian citizen.

Betty

No. No I'm not. I'm an American citizen and my daughter is an American citizen. We were born in the United States. We have American passports. I mean, we don't have them with us. My husband has them. We've never changed our citizenship.

Nicole

If you marry an Iranian man, you automatically become an Iranian citizen. The laws regarding women are very strict. You cannot travel anywhere without written permission. You have no rights to the children. They go to the man in a divorce. I'm sorry, but you will have to go back to your husband.

Betty
[on the verge of tears]

But we'll never get out of Iran. We're being held hostage. It was almost impossible to come here.

Nicole

Mrs. Mahmoody, there are many American women here in similar circumstances. [pauses] May I ask you why you came to Iran?

Betty
[pauses]

I don't know. I don't know. I was afraid to come. [sniffles] I wanted to please him. I trusted him. I was frightened to come, but I never thought this would happen. I thought of him as an American. He's changed. Oh God, he's changed.

Nicole

Look, Mrs. Mahmoody. Many came back after the Revolution feeling guilty about being away, about turning their backs on Iran and on Islam. Now Iran is an Islamic State and that's a wonderful thing for many Iranians. Well, if there is anything I can do, maybe if you need to organize telephone calls to the U.S. or if you want to write letters home, let me know.

Betty

Have you become Muslim?

Ellen

Mm-hmm.

Betty

Did you convert?

Ellen

Well, I wanted to, I guess. My husband was happy I did. It made things a lot better.

Ellen
[Ellen sees her husband waiting for her]

Uh, I... I got to go.

Betty

Ellen, it's been so...

Ellen

No, really.
[Ellen runs to her husband]

Betty

My father's ill. He could be dying. I have to go and see him.

Houssein

I don't think your father would have wanted you to go back if it meant losing your daughter.

Betty

Why can't I go and see him, come back, and leave later with Mahtob?

Houssein

You can't leave Mahtob here, not with Moody's family. They're from the provinces, and this regime only encourages them. There are some people who consider a girl ready for marriage at nine years of age. Child brides are not unknown.

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