Lydia Tár And this piece was not born into aching tragedy. It was born into young love. Adam Gopnik And so you chose... Lydia Tár Love. Adam Gopnik Right, but precisely how long? Olga Metkina You have a child? Lydia Tár Yes. Olga Metkina I will never do that! Lydia Tár Pets are best for some people. Lydia Tár Don't be so eager to be offended. The narcissism of small differences leads to the most boring kind of conformity.