John : [after Lucy kisses him at someone's wedding event] What is this? Lucy : What is what? John : Are we getting back together? [Lucy doesn't answer] John : Lucy, are we getting back together? Lucy : I don't know. I really don't. John : So you thought you'd just show up at my door, not have a boyfriend, agree to get in my car, kiss me, **** me while you try to get over someone else, and then leave me again? Is that it? Do you think I'm worthless? Lucy : No, I don't think that. John : Am I disposable? Lucy : Of course not. John : Do you feel bad for me? 'Poor old John can't figure his life out'? Lucy : Never. John : Then why are you using me? Lucy : I'm not. John : I'm usually desperate enough to let you. I'm a beggar for you. When I see your face, I see wrinkles, and grey hair, and children who look like you... I can't help it. [he sighs] John : But as your friend... I would tell you it's a bad idea to be with a 37-year-old cater waiter who still has roommates. I would say... you definitely shouldn't marry a guy that has $2,000 in his bank account in a city he can't afford, who's only still there to keep trying to be a theatre actor because someone told him he was good at it once. So, where does that leave us? Here. At someone else's wedding. I can't give you the wedding or the marriage you want. I couldn't even give you the relationship you wanted. It's been years, and I still can't afford to be with you.

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