A scene from Kramer vs. Kramer 1979
Joanna Kramer

[Joanna returns to New York]

All my life I've felt like...somebody's wife or somebody's mother, somebody's daughter. Even all the time we were together I never knew who I was. And that's why I had to go away. And in California, I think I found myself. I got myself a job. I got myself a therapist, a really good one. And I feel better about myself than I ever have in my whole life. I learned a great deal about myself.

Ted Kramer

Such as?... No, really, I'd really like to know what you learned.

Joanna Kramer

Well, I've learned that I love my little boy. And that I'm capable of taking care of him.

Ted Kramer

What do you mean?

Joanna Kramer

I want my son.

Ted Kramer

You can't have him

Joanna Kramer

Don't get defensive. Don't try to bully me.

Ted Kramer

I'm not getting defensive. Who walked out 15 months ago?

Joanna Kramer

I don't care. I'm still his mother.

Ted Kramer

Yeah, from 300 miles away. And because you sent post cards gives you the right to come back?

Joanna Kramer

I never stopped wanting him.

Ted Kramer

What makes you sure he wants you?

Joanna Kramer

What makes you sure he doesn't want me?

Ted Kramer

Okay look. We're gonna sit here and bat this back and forth. It's like old times.

Joanna Kramer

You can't deny me...

Ted Kramer

Don't tell me what I can or cannot do! Don't talk to me that way!

Joanna Kramer

I anticipated this.

Ted Kramer

Okey look, I don't want to hear this. Do what you have to. I'll do what I have to.

Joanna Kramer

Fine... I am very sorry about this.

Ted Kramer

Okey, just do what you have to do.

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